Beloved has already placed his bets on whether or not be will actually quit. He thinks he will, considering we work together & may even be roommates on an out f town industry event. He says having me around him in such tight quarters is going to drive P nuts, knowing he could actually have sex with me, if he stopped smoking. I think that's the best part for P. There is no direct pressure from me, such as nagging, except my presence.
I don't personally have any thoughts about it. I am perfectly happy with my relationship with P now. I am certainly not desperate to have sex with him or anyone, for that matter, considering I am in a healthy, sexually vibrant, polyamorous, relationship with Beloved.